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						Affirmation by Donald Hall 
						
						To grow old is to lose everything.  Aging, everybody knows it.  Even when we are young,  we glimpse it sometimes, and nod our heads  when a grandfather dies. Then we row for years on the midsummer  pond, ignorant and content. But a marriage, that began without harm, scatters  into debris on the shore,  and a friend from school drops  cold on a rocky strand. If a new love carries us  past middle age, our wife will die  at her strongest and most beautiful.  New women come and go. All go.  The pretty lover who announces  that she is temporary is temporary. The bold woman, middle-aged against our old age, sinks under an anxiety she cannot withstand.  Another friend of decades estranges himself  in words that pollute thirty years.  Let us stifle under mud at the pond's edge  and affirm that it is fitting and delicious to lose everything.						 
						
						
						
						
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